“Ask, like, what does support feel like for you right now? What could I do to support you? Do you want somebody to validate these positive things and talk about them with you?”

Hidden Brain · Why Am I Unhappy?

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When supporting someone in distress, ask "What does support feel like for you right now? What could I do to support you?" instead of giving unsolicited advice

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